Recently I've fell out with someone who I deemed a close friend because of comments they made which hit me hard. I never would've thought it would happen but it did and I'm glad it did because who knows I could've ended up putting my complete trust in them and then imagine how damaged I'd be then.
It's not only being proven wrong that can ruin a friendship. I have plenty of friends who would drop me for someone else in a second because they got a better offer, I have friends who wouldn't mind if I got hurt as long as they were ok, I have friends who only want me when its convenient to them and I have friends who use me when they have no-one else.
After all this I still class these people as friends, I shouldn't bother but really I don't mind because they're not important to me. Yeah I'd be bothered if something bad happened to them and I still like them but I don't 100% trust them and I don't mind if they didn't invite me somewhere because I'd probably feel awkward being with them.
I literally have a handful of friends who I can class as best friends. I've had my arguments with them and yeah we fall out all the time but at the end of the day we make up every single time and as long as we do that's fine with me.
I guess what I'm trying to say is be careful who you choose as your friends because one day it might come back around and bite you, on the other hand there is some people you can class as practically family so don't waste to long trying to see if they are genuine or not.
luv kt xo
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